Toi et Moi Rings: The History, Meaning, and Trends of This Romantic Style

If you're someone who cherishes romance, you probably always look for ways to commemorate your significant relationships, achievements, and life events. While jewelry can be a touching way to do so, some styles are more appropriate for heartfelt gifts (and self purchases) than others. Jeanette, for instance, is fond of the "toi et moi" style, and she's put her own twist on it with her Double Revival Ring collection.

Double Revival Ring Turquoise

What's the origin of the phrase “toi et moi”, and what does it mean? In this blog post, we explore the history and meaning of this style of ring, as well as some of the most famous examples. You'll even discover how you can choose a version that feels meaningful for you!

Toi et Moi Rings’ Meaning

"Toi et moi" is a French phrase that means “you and me” in English. It describes a style of ring featuring two gemstones, usually of similar size and shape, that symbolize the union of two lovers. "Toi et moi" rings have a long and romantic history, dating back to the 18th century, when Napoleon gave Josephine de Beauharnais a ring with a pear-shaped sapphire and a diamond. This style has withstood the test of time and is now more popular than ever before.

Why Have Toi et Moi Rings Become So Popular

"Toi et moi" rings have gained attention because they offer a way of expressing one’s love and individuality in a unique and creative way. These are some notable examples throughout history:

  • Jackie Kennedy and John F. Kennedy: Jackie Kennedy's stunning engagement ring from JFK boasted a 2.88-carat diamond paired with a 2.84-carat emerald, arranged in a romantic "toi et moi"setting.

  • Queen Margrethe of Denmark: Valued between £619,000 and 1 million euros ($750,000 to $1,059,550 USD), Queen Margrethe of Denmark's engagement ring stands out as one of the most unique and costly in royal history. This luxurious "toi et moi" ring features two massive, cushion-cut diamonds, each weighing 6 to 8 carats, set diagonally on a yellow gold band. The rarity of such large, high-quality diamonds contributes to the ring's significant value.

Gemstones for Perfect "Toi et Moi" Combos

Here are some perfect gemstone combinations that will make for a stunning and meaningful "toi et moi" ring.

  • Diamond and sapphire: This is a classic and elegant choice, inspired by the original toi et moi ring from Napoleon and Josephine. The contrast between the white and blue colors adds a touch of sophistication and glamour.

  • Diamond and emerald: This is a vibrant and eye-catching option, as the green and white colors complement each other beautifully. The emerald also symbolizes love, loyalty, and harmony, making it a perfect choice for an engagement ring.

  • Diamond and ruby: This is a bold and passionate choice, as the red and white colors create a stunning contrast. The ruby also represents love, courage, and vitality, making it a meaningful choice for an engagement ring.

Personalize Your Own Toi et Moi Ring

One way to personalize your own "toi et moi" ring is to choose two gemstones that represent the two individuals'  personalities, birthstones, or favorite colors. If you are looking for your own "toi et moi" ring in the signature ParkFord style, you can check out our Double Revival Ring designs:

  • Double Revival Ring Tanzanite: Tanzanite is a rare and exquisite gemstone that has a captivating violet-blue hue and a high refractive index, making it sparkle with brilliance. It is a perfect gift for someone born in December, or for anyone who loves the enchanting beauty of Tanzanite.
    Double Revival Ring Tanzanite

  • Double Revival Ring Turquoise: This ring is a fun and playful piece featuring turquoise and one diamond. Moreover, turquoise is a vibrant and colorful gemstone that symbolizes good fortune and hope.
    Double Revival Ring Turquoise

  • Double Revival Ring Pink Coral: The ring has a beautiful pink coral and a diamond. The ring’s soft colors provide a subtle and sweet vibe.
    Double Revival Ring Pink Coral
  • Double Revival Ring - Birthstone and Diamond: This ring is a beautiful piece you can customize with the birthstone of the wearer for extra meaning and personalization.
    Double Revival Ring - Birthstone and Diamond

  • Double Revival Ring Diamond: It is a toi et moi ring that features two diamonds set in 14K gold. You can also customize it with two birthstones, perfect to represent two lovers in a single ring.
    Double Revival Ring Diamond

  • Double Revival Ring Emerald: This ring is a gorgeous piece of jewelry that showcases the beauty and elegance of emerald, a green gemstone that symbolizes wisdom, growth, and prosperity.Double Revival Ring Emerald

A "toi et moi" ring is a wonderful way to commemorate the most important people, moments, and milestones in your life. By intentionally choosing your own look, you can make your ring more meaningful and memorable.